"There is no scientific evidence that paddling works. There is only
anecdotal evidence of people who say, 'I was hit and I turned out all
right.' The only benefit is immediate, short-term behavior change. It
doesn't teach anything except might makes right."
Texas leads the nation in school paddlings. According to the Center
for Effective Discipline in Harris County, Ohio, 75,000 students were
paddled in Texas in the year 2000.
Twenty-eight states have banned the practice of paddling in public schools.
More than 50 percent of school districts have a policy that allows paddling.
Southern states have the most incidents of corporal punishment.
Mississippi and Arkansas are ranked first and second in percentage of
students paddled. Texas is seventh.
3. Spirit Whisperer Contemplation [back
If your students were already who they were going to become, why would
they need to go to school?
The Character Support Statement
Positive behavior needs to be reinforced. Many educators and parents
do that using evaluative praise: "You did a good job on that,"
"Your effort was excellent."
An alternative to evaluative praise is the Character Support Statement.
piece of Teacher Talk consists of two elements: a descriptive comment
and a character
connection. Examples follow:
"Bill, I noticed you ignored Carlos' teasing and returned to work
(descriptive comment). When you do that, you demonstrate self-control"
"Marlene, you have revised this report five times (descriptive comment).
determination and persistence on your part" (character connection).
"I see, Latrell, that you shared the blocks with Latisha (descriptive
comment). You are learning about cooperation" (character connection).
By using Character Support Statements instead of evaluative praise, you
leave room for the student to draw the conclusion. You then allow the
evaluation to come from the inside out rather than attempting to take
it from the outside and put it in. Character Support Statements affirm
what has been done and reveal the character connection so students can
make sense of their behavior in terms of their developing characters.
The Teacher Talk Seminar is currently one of our most requested seminars.
Skill-based and practical, this verbal skills training offers teachers
strategies they can put to use
immediately. Chick Moorman is currently booking summer and back-to-school
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7. Lessons We'd Learn If Dogs Were Teachers [back to top]
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
No matter how often you are scolded, don't buy into the guilt thing and
pout. Run right back and make friends.
On warm days, stop to lie on your back in the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
When you are happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle
that person gently.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Let others know when they have invaded your territory.
Stretch before rising.
Run, romp, and play daily.
Eat with gusto and enthusiasm. Stop when you have had enough.
Be loyal. Never pretend to be something you are not.
When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
8. Article: Little Things Mean
A Lot [back to top]
by Ellie Braun-Haley
Is it possible to alter the actions of school children? To take the focus
from bullying and
from reporting inconsequential tales that find fault?
Well, one young woman thought so, and she worked a year to achieve this
Braun, a concerned and caring mother — a woman with a lot of imagination
determination to make a difference — became the mighty force behind an
kindness in a Canadian elementary school.
Laurie wanted to help the students to focus on positive actions and words.
After gaining the approval of the principal, she developed and operated
a program that would do just that. She set about to inspire and motivate
hundreds of children to file reports on one another for their kind gestures,
no matter how small the deed.
"The interesting thing about it all," said Laurie, "is
that it truly was the little things that they all began noticing."
She picked up two reports at random and read them:
"When I was by myself, Jeffrey sat on the swing with me."
"I slipped and cut myself on the ice, and Sara sat with me."
These and other similar reports handed in by the school children eventually
soared from the hundreds to well over the thousand mark.
"The children revealed a lot about what their concerns are during
these early school years. I saw a noticeable pattern regarding the reports,"
said Laurie. "They (the children) spoke a lot about their appreciation
for being included, their appreciation for having someone to play with,
and their relief and appreciation when another student comforted them
after a spill."
The response was magnificent; student participation increased weekly.
In fact, the load
of volunteer work for this one parent increased by leaps and bounds. Students
reports of kindness in one week alone.
"It became a challenge," said Laurie, "to fit everything
on the bulletin board and to keep it sparkling and colorful. I think the
kids loved the glitter of the displays the most!"
Ms. Braun devoted well over 170 hours working both at home and at the
school to prepare materials and build weekly displays to keep the children
As time went by, the elementary school began to change conspicuously.
Kids were sharing lunches and opening doors for one another. Kindness
Even the crossing guard at the crosswalk was reported for her acts of
wonderful thing about this," commented Laurie, "was that the
report was put in by a youngster who was so shy he had never even spoken
to the crossing guard, although the guard had spoken words of encouragement
to this one particular youngster many times."
A child who had a reputation of being arrogant was suddenly helping another
clean out her desk. One lonely child reported of a classmate, "When
I needed a friend to play with, she was there."
The number of reports went up weekly, but not just as ordinary reports.
Over the weekend, the innovative and artistically inclined Laurie chose
a theme so that every single report was set on special paper, highlighted
with sparkling glitter. One week she placed the names of the youngsters
on lightning bolts, another week every report was done on teddy bears,
and yet another time reports appeared on little T-shirts, all hanging
on a clothesline.
The bulletin board was so eye-catching that it drew crowds. Soon parents,
teachers, and other staff were gathering around to take in the theme and
designs for each new week.
When the school year drew to a close, Laurie took each and every "good
deed" report filled in by students and teachers and attached them
to one long continuous roll of paper. Once posted, this was to be the
final reminder to all that little things do make a difference.
She chose a time when only teachers were at the school, and she and her
young daughter literally wrapped the school walls with over a thousand
What was it that motivated this woman? She said, "It all came about
because I could see that some of the younger children in the elementary
school were worried over bullying. Some concentrated too much energy on
reporting the wrong choices of others. I was looking for something to
counteract this when I came up with the idea of reporting one another's
acts of kindness. I sincerely believed, and still do, that an act of kindness
should receive ten times the attention given to a deed that comes about
because of wrong choices. I wanted my program to encourage both students
and adults to focus on the positive, on what is appreciated — not what
is annoying or hurtful."
The program also had some unforeseen side benefits. The reports often
problems were at hand, and Ms. Braun was able to alert the school authorities.
"I noticed one week that many of the reports spoke of various individuals
being helped up after falling on the ice. I contacted the school, and
they were able to alleviate the ice problem."
On the final day of the school year, Laurie asked the principal if the
children could leave their classrooms and walk about to view the huge
accumulated list of their good deeds and thoughtfulness. Students were
told that any reports that featured their names could be taken home as
souvenirs. Laurie watched as the excited students gathered around the
reports, first reading them, then commenting and remembering, and finally
reaching to retrieve the reports to take them home as mementos.
"I watched those youngsters that day and felt so proud of their
accomplishments. I thought, Look at the huge amount of kindness you all
gave to one another. You all noticed even the smallest of gestures, and
you have made such a difference in the lives of one another."
Choked with emotion, Laurie shed tears and felt an overwhelming warmth
of pleasure for the success of her quest.
Is it possible to alter the actions of school children? To take the focus
from bullying and
One woman proved that anything is possible when you follow your instincts
and your dreams.
(As seen at Heartwarmers.com)
Ellie lives in Alberta, Canada, and wrote this story about her middle
child. She says, "I've always been amazed at Laurie, at her resilience
and her determination. I'm proud of her for her willingness to share with
others and for the care she demonstrates toward family, friends, and even
strangers." Ellie has a number of stories and books published and
is the author of "A Little Door A Little Light," a book she
was challenged to write following the death of her 17-year-old son Jason.
Ellie presents talks on the material from the book, hoping to help ease
the pain of others due to a death. You can reach her at email@example.com
Chick Moorman is available to keynote your back-to-school inservice day,
fall staff development meeting, conference, or recognition dinner with
"Celebrate the Spirit Whisperers." Contact him at firstname.lastname@example.org
or call (toll-free) 877-360-1477. Full-day seminars include the following
topics: "Teaching for Respect and Responsibility" and "Achievement
Motivation and Behavior Management."
9. Training Opportunity [back
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