Welcome! This is a free newsletter on becoming a Response-Able teacher
and developing Response-Able students.
My mission is to inspire, encourage and uplift the spirits of educators
so they can in turn inspire, encourage, and uplift the spirits of their
IN THIS ISSUE
2. Idea Exchange
4. Teacher Talk
6. Personal Ad
7. Win a Free Spirit Whisperer Book
8. Article: "Spilled Soup for the
9. Subscription Information
"The measure of a person's integrity is what they do when they think
they can get away with it."
To seek student input and help them learn to articulate their opinions,
pick a controversial topic that fits with your subject matter. Design
a question to elicit responses. Examples include: What animal do you think
is most likely to become extinct? What should be done about the school
lunch program? Which explorer made the most important contribution to
Have students write a one paragraph response on a file card. Challenge
them to explain why they believe as they do?
File cards are collected and placed in a pile. Two students then split
the paragraph pile and alternately read the paragraphs aloud. Discussion
Learn from the mistakes of other teachers. You can't live long enough
to make them all yourself.
"Say you're sorry."
Asking students in the midst of strong emotion to deny their feelings
and apologize does them a disservice. When our Teacher Talk to angry students
is, "Tell him you're sorry," the real message we communicate is, "Forget
what you'd really like to say. Hold back your anger. Choke off your frustration.
Numb your real feelings and pretend they don't exist.
If a student is not sorry, use your Teacher Talk skills to help the
student get in touch with her real feelings and communicate them in descriptive,
nonjudgmental language. Say, "Tell him you are angry because when he called
you the name it felt like a put down." Suggest, "Let Roberto know that
you were frustrated because he is spending so much time on the computer."
Drop "Say you're sorry," from your Teacher Talk repertoire and teach
students that to be sorry means to behave differently. Teach them to communicate
what they learned and what they intend to do differently next time. "I
learned you don't like me cutting in front of you in line and it's my
intention not to do that again." "I realize now that you don't like me
copying off your paper. I won't do that anymore."
(Paraphrased from p. 124, "Teacher Talk: What It Really Means," by Chick
Moorman and Nancy Weber (available from Personal Power Press, $13.95 at
877-360-1477 or IPP57@aol.com.)
What would your day be like..... if just for today, you did not focus
on what the student was doing, but focused instead, on what you were being
in relationship to that?
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7. Win a Free Spirit Whisperer Book [back
A free copy of "Spirit Whisperers: Teachers Who Nourish A Child's Spirit,"
will be sent to the 10th person who sends us a question, idea, suggestion,
concern, or reaction for the Response-Able Educator Newsletter. Contact
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ideas on how to teach from the heart.
Spilled Soup for the Soul
Ivonne Delaflor teaches a class in meditation to young children in Cancun,
Mexico. The three, four, and five-year olds learn such concepts as:
1. My emotions have a name.
2. How to recognize feelings.
3. Moving with energy.
4. Creative visualization.
5. Drawing emotion through color.
The use of music plays an important role in Ivonne’s format. She chooses
music for children designed to uplift their spirits, like the CD, “Chicken
Soup For Little Souls.” She also selectively mixes in art and video in
an effort to help young children learn what it is to be a human being.
After one of the sessions for preschoolers, Ivonne invited the children
of her small class and their moms to have lunch in her home. Carrot soup
was the main entrée on that particular day. Conversation and a sense of
community were flowing freely when Manuel, a four-year old spilled his
soup on the floor. Although the spill was unintentional, tension and stress
entered the scene.
Manuel’s mom momentarily held her breath and her anger. Although she
attempted to appear calm, her anger was visible to every person who shared
that moment. Ivonne, immediately conscious of the mom’s reaction, also
noticed Manuel. The young child, embarrassed and afraid, began to shake,
A brief moment of awkwardness was evident until Ivonne made a split-second
decision. She spilled her soup. Accidentally, of course, and on purpose.
All eyes now turned to the teacher. “These things happen,” Ivonne announced
to the group. “Sometimes I get distracted and sometimes I don’t. This
time I just got distracted. I’ll just clean up my soup and the problem
will be solved.”
When Ivonne finished explaining her situation to the students and mothers,
her three-year old daughter “accidentally” spilled her soup and repeated
the exact words that Ivonne had used to explain the previous spillage.
As clean up of the three soups proceeded, Manuel became noticeably relieved
and appeared at ease. His mother, watching the scene unfold, began to
cry. She stood, walked to Ivonne, and whispered, “Thank you.” “What for?
asked Ivonne. “When soup is spilled we just clean it up.”
Later that day, Ivonne spoke to her daughter and reminded her about the
importance of keeping soup in bowls, mouths, and stomachs and off the
floor. After all, it is not always appropriate to spill soup for the soul.
Note: You may contact Ivonne Delaflor by email at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Her English website is currently under construction.
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